When Your Completely Unreliable BFF Asks for a Job Recommendation
August 21, 2012
As one of the leading in staffing agencies in Houston, TX, we at Murray Resources know that the economy is still brutal out there for many. As a result, candidates are leveraging every connection they have in order to land jobs.
But what should you do if a friend asks for help in their job search – specifically, for you to recommend them or to serve as a reference – and you know they’re not the most reliable person?
The bottom line is that helping out a friend that you know is “less than dependable” could harm your credibility within your own network. So proceed with caution when it comes this kind of situation and consider the following first:
Do You Have a Copy of Their Resume?
Before committing to doing anything, ask your friend to send along their resume. If it’s filled with employment gaps, poor grammar, and bad spelling, you probably won’t want to send it along to anyone in your network or at your company. That said, you can still offer to lend a hand by helping them to polish their resume.
Are You Willing to Offer a Formal Referral?
Passing along a friend’s name and resume to a hiring manager is different than offering a formal referral. If you’re asked to do the latter, you’re essentially saying that you vouch for your friend, their skill level, and the fact that you believe they’ll do a good job. If you’re not comfortable doing so, then simply give your friend the contact information for the hiring manager and ask them not to bring up your name.
Are You Comfortable Working With Your Friend?
If your friend is asking for a referral or recommendation to a job with your current employer, think long and hard about whether to say “yes.” For instance, they may know your “real feelings” about your boss and if they tend to have loose lips, then offering a recommendation could be a nail in your coffin at the company.
Need Help With Your Own Job Search?
If you do, give Murray Resources a call. As one of the leading in staffing agencies in Houston, TX, we’ve partnered with many of the top employers throughout the city for over 24 years. As a result, we can match you with opportunities that are a terrific fit for you! Contact Murray Resources today to learn more.